South Toms River: RP claims a male is beating up a female in a Silver Nissan Altima in the parking lot of the Wawa. Caller also alleges the male party has a knife and possibly a handgun. PD has located the vehicle and is making contact on the 900 Block of Tiller in Beachwood.
STR: Domestic @ Wawa
Update: Victim is being uncooperative. PD back out at Wawa to attempt to view evidence on camera of the domestic.
Ocean County Scanner News its Always the way…. The victim protects the abuser. “But I Love him…and He Says he Loves me and hes sorry. He’ll change. He didnt mean it he had a bad day and I shouldnt have questioned him about that girl who called him”….smh… The Victim needs more help then being beaten up by this jerk. She needs Mental Help.
Unfortunately when it comes to domestic violence it’s not always that simple. These women are petrified for their lives. If a man is that brutal to physically beat up a woman and hold a weapon to her possibly in a public place can you imagine what he would do in private? Women for the majority don’t say anything because they’re scared and for no other reason. When she says things like “He didn’t mean it. I love him…” That’s code for I’m scared as hell and even if I leave this man he’s going to find me and kill me. Let us not be so judgemental.
Kim Osterbrink-Pompeo totally agree.
Kim Osterbrink-Pompeo you are so right. Nobody knows what it is like until they lived through it.
And these are the same ratchet girls who listen to gangster rap and only be with guys who wear their pants around their ankles and have colors. Jesus christ its STR, not a third world country. Fucking get up and go to another town. Lots of guys out there not getting laid. I’m sure she can put out for a guy who wont beat her and put a roof over her head.
Lou Amato Do I look like someone that would date a “gangster”!? Always easy for people to judge what they never went through. Smh Thankfully my ex relationship never got to this point but I will NEVER pass judgement.
She is afraid. He probably threaten her
Lou Amato I hope you don’t have daughters, possibly sons that will go through this. You ever had a knife held to your throat? Threatened and beaten every day? I’m sure you haven’t. So you can’t even open your mouth on this subject. You have no right victim blaming until you have been in this situation and know all the facts.
Kim Osterbrink-Pompeo and the ones who have stepped up and gotten away were later on murdered by these same men even after putting restraining orders on them ☹️
Pam Perez- Exactly! Just look at what happened with Stephanie Parze. That girl did everything she was supposed to & her ex killed her while waiting for their case to go to court.
Most people don’t realize how complicated these relationships can be. Some of the comments on this post are so ignorant and lack any level of empathy.
Wtffffffff!!!!!
This makes me so sad. I just don’t understand the mind of the victim or the abuser. Hopefully she is ok.
But he loves me. Ugh
Katie Decker
Cody Tchir omg
…sad this whole thing fits people I know .. smh
Ashley Gee me too…even the car ????
Jaxon Bailey yup the car.. the road.. smh I’m disgusted
Ashley Gee can u PM me pls
Damn Ron what’s happenin
Unfortunately when it comes to domestic violence it’s not always that simple. These women are petrified for their lives. If a man is that brutal to physically beat up a woman and hold a weapon to her possibly in a public place can you imagine what he would do in private? Women for the majority don’t say anything because they’re scared and for no other reason. When she says things like “He didn’t mean it. I love him…” That’s code for I’m scared as hell and even if I leave this man he’s going to find me and kill me. Let us not be so judgemental.
Kim Osterbrink-Pompeo very true
Kim Osterbrink-Pompeo BRAVO
Sad but true! ????
Kim Osterbrink-Pompeo agreed. That also makes him a huge pussy too for putting his hands on a woman.
Kim Osterbrink-Pompeo I fight dudes now since I went through my situation. Never again am I afraid of any dude.
Kim Osterbrink-Pompeo but it different when a female is beating on a male for weeks
Robb Smith that is also true, very sad for anyone involved regardless of gender
Kim Osterbrink-Pompeo or, could be that he’s tired of her shit. Her hitting him like a man, cussing him, it goes both ways. Not saying it’s right. But if you hit like a man, be ready to be hot back like one. You can only take it so long. Women think they can do whatever they want and nothing happens. You wanted equal rights, they’re here now.
Bre O’Neil
Of course she’s being difficult. She can’t escape him and the police aren’t always going to be there. I’m so sorry girl.
When are people going to stop doing there bs at wawa
Hem-u Ramos It’s club wawa. Everything happens at wawa.
I thought he is suppose to be arrested immediately for hitting a female boy day by day our laws are changing
Bobby Lightbody READ THE UPDATE. SHE WOULDN’T COOPERATE
Bobby Lightbody police have to arrest if there are physical signs of assault or worse.
To much today depends on who you are when it comes to breaking laws.
Happy Valentine’s Day ????
I hope and pray she finds the strength to out smart this man to save herself. To find her worth. And I hope to God no children are invovled. Bc a Restraining order is just a piece of paper. When The abuser knows you your entire routine your entire family or entire whereabouts. They will stop at nothing. Put the man away. It’s a shame what he will do to this person to own her soul.
Rob Wunderlich
Caitlin Jubert
She probably did something for that to happen.say out of people business not everyone can find a new dishwasher on sale
Rachael Sue no wonder you’re single you piece of trash
Laura Schneider Lange believe stuff off Ssm is trashy of you to ????????
Rachael Sue Not only was that a shitty thing to say you’re completely illiterate. Maybe you need to go back to School and learn spelling and proper grammar
Beverly Reilly Ombres
Rachael Sue NO MATTER WHAT NO ONE DESERVES TO BE THREATENED AND BEAT UP AND POSSIBLY MURDERED
Beth Lane that’s where you’re wrong this world is a cruel world and people kill for living people murder for living people fight for living you play stupid games and you win stupid prizes everything you do has a consequence and if her consequence was getting her ass beat for cheating or doing something that deserved it then that’s that
Rachael Sue one can only hope you get beat for breathing so you can shut the f*ck up with this trash you’re talking. I will be praying it comes soooo soon!
Rachael Sue okay now I get it. You’re just an attention whore who likes drama and wants controversy. You’re obviously uneducated so I won’t even entertain this conversation anymore with you
Beverly Reilly Ombres but you literally just did.it would of been better if you said that to your self without posting.that would of been the best way.i made a comment just like anyone else. You all didn’t like it so you said your comment on my comment. but yes if you dont like what you see keep on scrolling ????????
Debra Sanguinetti how did you get a gif of me???????????????
Rachael Sue seriously?????????
Lil thugs
I lived this for many years, it is not easy to get a way. They beat you down so many times to the point you don’t know how you will live without them. The fear is overwhelming for anyone you care about they use that to control you. If you have children it is even worse. The abuser will isolate the victim from anyone who loves them. You feel alone and unable to see your way out. Getting a restraining order only makes it worse and oh yeah ( stop I have this peice of paper). If you have them arrested they will get out . You pray they won’t beat you for that, I pray for this girl that she has the strength and support she needs to get away. ????????????????????
Daniella Lund thankful you got out, I too am a SURVIVOR, thank you Lord for All the women & men who make it out alive!❤
Cecelia Kett I’m free from that but the scars never leave. I thank God for hearing my prayers. I do have a hard time reading or seeing it. I’m glad you got free no one should have to live in fear. God bless!????⚘
Wow. She is not safe.police didn’t do there job in this one.any time asault,and weapon she should of been arrested.have there day in court.hope she can stay safe,from this animal.it can only get worse. Assault in a public place what can you imagine takes place behind closed doors.Prayers for her safety
Error he should of been arrrested.
Nissan Altima says it all.
Lock him up!
Hopefully it is an update did the piece of scum get locked up where he belongs Honey one hes in jail you need to run for your life because like someone else said if hes gonna beat you in a while while parking lot full of people what is he do when you guys were alone hes gonna wind up killing you you need to get the h*** away from him as fast as you can don’t look back
Probably judy in Tom’s river one. Shes mean n nasty
Domestic violence is an extremely hard situation to get out of. I had to muster up a lot of strength to leave and was even harder to stay away because of threats. I live with the scars of that and will for the rest of my life I hope she can find the strength to leave. It won’t be easy at first but she can do it because she is stronger then she thinks
Only way to solve this problem is SHOOT THE BASTARD ON SITE! KILL HIM!!!!
Such a lovely area
Always hear these awful things in this area. Awful.
Bad area
Domestic Ham? Swiss?