When you limit a teachers ability to teach, a cops ability to police, an artists ability to be creative, a chefs ability to experiment, or a surgeons ability to practice, who REALLY loses out?? OCSN # 18
Toms River Students Defend Teacher, Hands-On Slavery Lesson
Students say Lawrence Cuneo is sensitive and compassionate; his hands-on lesson was voluntary and he never singled anyone out, they said.
TOMS RIVER, NJ — Toms River students say an accusation that a Toms River middle school teacher demeaned and kicked students during a classroom lesson on slavery is a lie, and have promised to defend the teacher at an upcoming school board meeting.
Lawrence Cuneo, who teaches eighth-grade history at Toms River Intermediate East, was accused by a student in an Instagram post of forcing students to pick cotton, to lie on the classroom floor and of kicking them in the feet during an activity in class on Friday.
Toms River Regional school district officials on Tuesday said they are investigating the incident. Cuneo, who also is mayor of Pine Beach, has been teaching in the Toms River schools for 18 years and according to multiple students has been using the activity as part of his American history teachings for many years. Read more: Student Complaint Over Slavery Lesson Investigated In Toms River
Toms River students and parents say the claim that students were kicked is false, and that descriptions of the other activities are sorely misleading. In multiple interviews, students said the lesson had a significant impact on their understanding of slavery and of what slaves faced.
Lisa Nuernberg said her child, who was in the class with the student who complained on Instagram, said the description given was not true.
Nuernberg said her child “said it was a fun learning experience. It got them up and out of their seats.”
“There was never, ever kicking or any type of violence,” Nuernberg said. “It wasn’t promoting racism of any sort.”
Sara Connolly, whose daugher is in the class, and Daniela Vidal Matos, whose son is in it, both emphasized there was no kicking, and said participation was optional. Christine Ferreira said the lesson has been taught for many years.
Treniti DeBruycker, a freshman at Toms River East who had Cuneo last year, described the activity for Patch. She said it was part of a weeklong unit on slavery that included Cuneo playing spirituals that the slaves sang “to show us the deeper meaning of them,” and lengthy discussions with lots of notes.
The classroom activity that drew the complaint was optional, she said, a point made by multiple students and parents who commented on the Patch article.
“(Cuneo) was always really open about participating,” DeBruycker said. “He said, ‘If you’re not comfortable, I’m not going to make you participate.’ “
He would ask for volunteers, and then have them lie down on the floor side by side and act as if they were on a boat, to simulate the experience of slaves in the hold of slave ships.
“He would tell us this is how they were transported (to America) and he would explain how they were treated,” she said. “He brought in freshly picked cotton that had seeds, and had us separate the seeds and sticks and debris. It had to be as clean as possible,” DeBruycker said, and Cuneo would point out if it was not.
“There was no kicking,” said Gina Caputi, a sophmore at Toms River East who had Cuneo two years ago. During the ship exercise, “He would walk around us and say something if we did something wrong. He wouldn’t yell at us, but it opened my eyes to how people were treated.”
Caputi, too, said participation in the ship exercise was optional.
“The lesson portrayed the difficulty of the time period,” said Madison Chiappetta, another Toms River East freshman who had Cuneo last year. “In no way shape or form was it poking fun at slavery or depicting it positively.”
“Sure, reading about slavery from a book is a form of teaching, but hands-on activities truly stick and reinforce the message,” Chiappetta said.
Catalina Corona, a freshman at Toms River East, said it was one of the best lessons in Cuneo’s class.
“No one felt uncomfortable or as if he was going to far because we all knew that the only purpose of the lesson was for us to understand the lives of a slave,” she said. “As a person of color, he never once singled me out, made me feel like I was being discriminated or anything to make me feel like I was being treated differently.”
Claudia Cosme, a freshman who had Cuneo last year, noted she is a person of color and echoed Corona’s comments.
“Mr. Cuneo never made me feel lower than others in class, or called me out, or in any sense was racist towards me,” Cosme said. “He was actually the complete opposite and was so against racism, and he expressed (that) during the lesson.”
“(I) really enjoyed this lesson and how he decided to portray it. It really helped us understand and take in everything about slavery,” she said. “We got to see how it really was back then. … even though it is a hard lesson to talk about nowadays, Mr. Cuneo had the best way to explain it to us.”
Maryanne VanDeventer noted two of her children are African American and remembered when her children, now high school students, had the lesson.
“(Cuneo) was sensitive to the kids, spoke about it with them at length and anyone who was uncomfortable did not have to participate,” she said. “I picked up my high schoolers today along with some friends. They had heard about this and had nothing but praise for him.”
Erin Gibson had Cuneo for English in 2006 and said he always used a number of methods to help students learn and understand the material.
“When we were reading ‘Huckleberry Finn,’ we would do projects and we’d have to play out scened from the book,” Gibson said. As a visual learner, it helped her comprehend what she was reading.
“He would put it in great detail and make you feel how they felt,” she said. “I’m more of a visual learner and he put it into a perspective (where) I would understand what I just read.”
DeBruycker said she had seen and downloaded copies of the Instagram post that stirred the controversy. It contained some black-and-white photos but there was no video or any photo evidence that supported the student’s claims about Cuneo.
“There was no visual evidence of anything happening in that class” in the post, she said. A second Instagram post that echoed the main one came from a student who wasn’t even in the class that day, she said.
“Everyone I have known who’s talked about the exercise was thrilled there was a teacher who was willing to make it known what was going on,” DeBruycker said. “His lessons, especially his hands-on lessons, influenced me. He explained the impact you can have on other people.”
“Thank god these kids never really had to know what slavery was like,” said Christine McEvoy Cabezas, whose daughter was one of Cuneo’s students. “A small classroom lesson couldn’t possibly depict the horrors.”
“I have known Mr. Cuneo for over 30 years,” Michele Barletto-Baldwin wrote. “He is one of the nicest, kindest, compassionate people I know. This whole thing is totally ridiculous.”
So 1 kid makes a seemingly false claim and 99% of the other kids say this was not true at all….I call BS on this kids claim
for the love of god don’t transfer him to Lakewood….I can smell the gas now !!!!
https://youtu.be/Oomlb9xm-YQ
Another race boating accusation by some kid whose being called out by 99.9% of the students who were there! This is a good life lesson, the needs and want for attention of ONE does NOT outweigh the needs of the MANY who just want to learn! I look no further than the parents of this kid! Will there be punishments handed down to the accuser if it’s dropped at the school board meeting?! OF COURSE NOT, WHY? Because our society has made it IMPOSSIBLE to discipline children!!
Keith Childers what about his double dipping?
Scott A Barnes i was thinking the same thing. I see that he’s Beachwoods Mayor. First off, he’s there, he’s teaching and I’m positive that if there were the slightest bit of impropriety, his rivals would be all over the double dipping angle right? If he IS breaking the law, or bending it, that’s pretty damn blatant to be doing it in such a high-profile position and just getting away with it like that! I want to learn more about it. I’ll post when I do…have a good day sir!
Matthew Pelcher SEE…already my research is flawed!! Thank you for that!!
Scott A Barnes for what? Getting paid for doing two jobs? His mayoral paycheck is practically nothing.
“Double dipping” as you call it is very common in our local politics as political jobs do not pay well at all so not allowing that would severly limit candidates.
Rob Phillips I didn’t call it “double dipping” If the mayor of your town wants to teach driving school or biology…I say let him!! Public service is a noble cause at its very root!
Keith Childers sorry should have been Scott A Barnes. I just commented and it put the name in outo fill somehow but filled wrong name
Rob Phillips not a problem sir!
Keith Childers He’s the mayor of pine beach. His salary for that is like 2500 a year. I do not think he receives a pension for that position, so under the true double dipping issues, he’s not.
John Becker Certainly not, the man is entitled to make a living any way he sees fit. I think it’s great that he’s a schoolteacher
John Becker autocorrect changes my comment to “race-BOATING” seriously?! “RACE BAITING”
Keith Childers who’s race baiting? I was commenting on his position, salary and benefits. I’m confused about what you are addressing
John Becker not you! I never inferred anyone making comments here were. Please reread my comment..it was directed at those at the center of the controversy…not you or anyone else here!
hes been working there 18 years and made less than 75k and you’re worried about double dipping? He makes shit money for working somewhere that long. And I’m sure kids are a lot harder to deal with now than they used to be.
There’s always one in a group ????
Marianne Alessi Miller fake activists everywhere
Marianne Alessi Miller yep. Crazy. There’s “one” on this thread comparing it to taking Jewish kids to the cafeteria and sticking them in an oven lmfaooo. People are nuts.
None of this should have been reported or published until it was vetted properly and the full story or truth was known.
They want History taught in schools and than they bitch about how it’s being taught or implemented. So sad that one kid took it the wrong way. This is why there’s a teacher shortage. Not all history lessons are taught from the book. What’s the point of learning if reacting isn’t shown how bad it was and shedding light on history not to repeat itself is worse. Unbelievable how petty people are.
Jim N KimberlyLynn Sieber So do you think it would be appropriate to re-enact the Holocaust or 9/11 to learn about it?? It would be painful and insensitive to most individuals don’t you think?? Well same here, maybe YOU don’t find it insensitive but many will. I don’t think all that extra stuff was necessary to teach about slavery. ????????♀️
Millie Olivo , you must be one of those people who complains about how everything is taught in school. Some lessons should be re enacted so people learn from history and people’s mistakes and Do Not repeat history and maybe you should home school your kids if educating them affects you in a negative way. While the rest of us are trying to prevent tragedy with education. Millie Olivo you seem very narrow minded and need to be educated yourself before commenting on everyone’s post trying to play the victim card.
Millie Olivo , and i geuss someone like you isn’t aware that hundreds of documented films / movies have already been done about the Holocaust and memorial sites for 9/11. Guess you forgot about those teaching methods as well and want them removed too. And it’s Black History month which is all about learning and not to repeat mistakes in history
Public schools are antiquated. If you can have online college, maybe it’s time to save millions on elementary schools.
Kathleen Strittmatter there’s an online school for grammar and high school kids. And it’s free. And it also doesn’t afford children the chance to interact with other children and socialize.
Jen Marie that’s something parents can do. Home school students participate in group activities.
Harder for the left to indoctrinate the kids through a web course. And the majority of parents will never give up the 13 years of “free” daycare.
Dave Frick sadly you’re right.
How about social skills and teaching the importance of waking up on time and getting ready to go out into the world on any given day. Are we supposed to raise a society of future lazy adults who never get dressed and actually have to go out and have face-to-face conversations with people? How about the moms who blame the teachers when their perfect little social media – cell phone addicted kids dont do well and actually take up an active roll in their own kids education?
Brian Misek I think we’re already there.
Dave Frick also it’s good for kids to hear different viewpoints and discuss them with you at home, then you can have conversations and learn from each other. They can learn that teachers are human and have different opinions from them but still be respected
Sad world we live in honestly.
Beth Majchrowski Embarrassing. Tattletales and ❄️ are actually being taken seriously. Years ago these kids would’ve had the crap beat out of them. Now, they’re on their soapbox preaching.
I love you Nelly,Be my Valentine
Allowing kids to be offended by learning is not the right path to going down…
Keep it up Teach!!!! Good Job! Words can be meaningless to some but to experience it as it truly was, gets my vote any day of the week. Great Job!!!!!
Says he asked for volunteers, didn’t force anyone to participate and he didn’t kick or hurt anyone so whatever, leave it alone. I think the lesson he gave from how it’s being described is just fine. I have an 8th grader and a senior, I’d rather teachers teach this than some other useless nonsense. Don’t attack my comment, I honestly don’t care what your opinion is. This is mine. ????????♀️ PS teach your kids to not be so sensitive.
Makes me think of the civil war re-enactments we had at school as children, nobody was hurt, it was all fake. I thought those were good!
Because kids nowadays are little bitches that cry over anything it’s there parents fault kids nowadays are going to burn this planet to the ground
Paul Wilbur Parents aren’t teaching their kids to be men and women. Kids are soft. It’s pathetic.
Poor snowflake needs attention, one dope out of the whole class said it was an issue, rest said nothing happened. I wonder whos full of BS.
What’s next? Field trip to the cafeteria to put Jewish kids in the ovens? I’m blown away that nobody thinks this lesson isn’t a bad idea. If you were a black parent and your child came home and told you this, would you still think it’s ok?
Keith Morris if you read the article multiple former black students and there parents commented very positively about the lesson and how it was given
Rob Phillips I read the article and that’s great that several black parents were ok with. These black parents weren’t and I don’t blame them
Keith Morris how do you know this child and his parents are black? None of thw articles i read say anything about the color of the offended kids skin. Also if you are not ok with teaching children the reality of what our history is then you are part of the problem. Showing children of all races how bad it was is the only way to ensure history doesnt repeat itself. Ignoring the true severity will only make kids think it really was not a big deal
Keith Morris …. my kid goes to school with these kids. The one who made up these lies is white. So please stop.
Keith Morris I love it I didn’t see this my thoughts exactly they always want you to be sensitive to the holocaust but blacks should get over slavery bad choice
Chaka Freeman only sensitive when it’s convenient to them.
Keith Morris A white kid complained.
Christina Foggia-Dunn a white kid with a heart
Keith Morris ????????♀️
The students false claims must be dealt with, a lesson needs to be taught and an example made that making false accusations against someone in power for what ever reason can not be tolerated
Rob Phillips The brats never get punished.
Christina Foggia-Dunn The damage has already been done: it can’t be taken back.
Damage already done means puniahment should be even stronger
The problem as I see it that some people are so busy telling people what should not offend them instead of hearing them and understanding why or how they were offended by it. Now you end up with situations like this. Stop telling people to not be so sensitive because you have no idea what is behind that sensitivity. This is an inappropriate and insensitive way to teach, there is no reason at all to simulate slavery. This man may have had the best of intentions but his delivery was way off, admit the mistake, correct it in the future and move on.
???? nail on head! You worded this way better than I can right now. Feeling so angry and disappointed that people aren’t getting that. I wish someone would have my boys act like slaves. Gtfoh. No reason for it. I never re-enacted being a slave n I got it…on second thought, some of these people not getting might need hands on simulation to finally empathize. ????
Paraphrasing: Those who fail to learn from history are doomed to repeat it. Teacher was TEACHING.
Carolyn Thompson AMEN
Yeah I don’t think he really went about that lesson properly
I feel so sorry for teachers nowadays. Kids are kids and like to blow up stories. But don’t realize the consequences it has on the person being accused. Good for the teacher for teaching actual history.
I heard he’s been doing this for years and the kids loved it and loved him as a teacher. Its shows that it only takes one bad apple to ruin a bunch and cause a huge problem.
In 1985 my 6th grade class reenacted the Sacco Venzetti trial, the summary of which is just as valid today. I guess my teacher is in “hot water” for teaching us about anarchy and a failed judicial system?
Kevin Karlick I miss the 80s. How can kids who beat the crap out of each other, grow up only to raise ❄️❄️❄️
Everyone has become offended by everything, judge yourself,not others
TR we need to support this teacher
If not now then when????
No news here jeez let the man teach move on Fix the other problems first!!!!!
It only takes one student’s spin about what occurred to ruin a career. Often they do it because they hold a grudge. I’m happy the other students are speaking out with the truth.
Shouldn’t be in hot water????
Chelsea Ann
BreeAnn Johnson lol oh I’m well aware ????
I’ll need deets Monday
This is such a shame, sounds like a really great creative teacher that goes the extra mile to help children understand the lesson. It only takes one to ruin everything ☹️
He did not actually kick the kids so it’s funny how white kids are complaining about how African Americans were treated. Really? That shows they haven’t learned enough
Kaysie Pascale
Bitch and wine. None of these kids are ever going to be able to handle life.
So what are you supposed to teach?! How about people stop being so “butthurt” over OUR history and let the kids learn about where they have evolved from – JC. Mistakes are made everyday learn from them and move on. Society today SUCKS
That. Not. Good. At. All. Ok. Toms. River. Please. Help. Them. Ok.
There is always someone looking for the “problem” in a situation rather then what is intended. I see no issue with teaching kids or adults history. Someone also made a comment about teaching and making kids understand what happened in history so the bad things, like this topic, don’t repeat itself. I could not agree more. I also think there are some very distasteful comments (possibly one) on here that I will not give the time of day to…. as for the teacher, I don’t know him but my kids do and speak highly of him! WE as parents in TR need to support this teacher and ALL teachers, police, fire, EMS, etc. There is nothing wrong with teaching history. I don’t feel the lesson pointed towards any student from what I have read…..it is a FACT of history! It actually happened….This man should not be “In Hot Water”. #WeAreTR
Good for those students! Raise your voices!!
Just curious if it were a holocaust lesson would it have been ok to line the kids up and pretend to shoot them as they fell or pretend to gas them in a gas chamber
Chaka Freeman when my Grandpa came over from Ireland in the 1920s he came in through Ellis Island. Is anyone aware that back then they denied employment to the Irish?? He had to move up to Rhode Island to find work. God rest his soul, he was one of the founding Fathers of the AFL-CIO when he fought for rights of employment and the union when he moved back to NJ. He was president of the machinist union for 70 years. There is no mention of this in History and how poorly the Irish were treated in the early 1900s when they came to America. I hope someday this will become apart of history lessons so that everyone knows how poorly the Irish were treated as well.
Exactly Chaka Freeman
Chaka Freeman not sure the comparison is accurate…comparing the Holocaust to slavery or slavery to war or slavery to genocide is not apples to apples. I understand your point however not exactly the same thing. Comparing the Holocaust to genocide is more accurate than to slavery. A hands on, unique approach to history lessons is very much welcomed or we may be doomed to repeat it. We cannot continue to be blind to the evils of the past and how they effect us today. Kids need to toughen up (on a whole) and learning how we treated African Americans during our dark slavery time is key to making sure we never repeat it as well as making sure racism has no home in our country
I didn’t compare anything where did you see a comparison I asked if it would be ok if they were doing a lesson and they did those things
My kids both had him and felt it was a good learning experience
History is history!!!! Too many coddled butt hurt ppl today. What about the Holocaust?? Are they not going to teach that??? Offensive????
If he was teaching sexual education would he have people having sex? Only people that agrees with him looks like him.
Tyrese Mincey simple minded
Let teachers teach
Read the article before you comment negatively against the teacher! What is this world coming too? Smh!
One person ruins it for all. I remember this lesson in his class 10 years ago. And as I remember CLEARLY(as goes for his other students currently or in the past). He asked for VOLUNTEERS. Which obviously meant no one was forced to do it. So in all reality if the child didn’t want to do it, why did they? Mr Cuneo is an amazing teacher! Don’t let him go down like this for teaching a lesson in class. Over one person getting upset over it.
Let this teacher teach yes he uses examples good for him.
What a shame..these little snowflakes..following what they hear at home I’m sure
Pauline Rider
Melissa Yuill whatttt
Honestly sounds like an incredible teacher to me.
Mr. Cuneo is an amazing teacher who taught me and my classmates in a very real way that made us appreciate what we have and he deserves to keep his job join the fight http://chng.it/5g6ct79dd7
Anthony Visco
No slave or holocaust re-enactments please. Cuneo is ignorant or tone deaf if he’s taught this lesson for years
Nicole Neaves was really hoping for a sex scandal get this shit off my feed ????
Great teacher, my son loved him
I figure listen to the large amount of students who had no issue with the lesson over years..
I think the most interesting part of this story is will a notoriously woke NJEA union support a teacher being accused of racist insensitivity. It’s like a liberal prisoners dilemma
There goes the Brady Bunch Episode of recreating the first Thanksgiving.. more offended millennial’s
I know a child in THAT class. Majority of students appreciated the activity & are completely disheartened by this.
I hope the mom who handled this so completely inappropriately sees all of this support for the teacher. The kid is to fault for posting in social media, the mom, however, was ridiculous sending this to the press. She could have handled it by speaking to the teacher, speaking to the admin. Now she has made her child a social pariah from what I’ve heard.
Christy Barber probably looking for a quick settlement
He is a very good man who has excellent character, as well as compassion. This lesson sounds like a fabulous learning experience as part of a unit. His students are lucky to have him as their teacher. This complaint by a student seems to be invalid, and I sincerely hope Mr. Cuneo continues to teach this lesson along with his others. I also believe this student should not have posted this on social media. He should’ve discussed it with his family, and the parents could’ve handled it privately with him and/or administration. Good Luck Mr. Cuneo!
Angela Pisano My has him and he loves him. He said he’s his favorite teacher of all time.
I hope he sues for defamation of character. Would this qualify as libel? Sad how desperate these media outlets are for clicks that they’d attempt to jeopardize the career of a beloved teacher. How low can you go, really? Pathetic.
Thyügh Ché Kaleece they posted the original article with minimal information, and thought to add his salary to the article, because somehow they felt that it was relevant????
Krissy Plaza-Cicalese ????
So wrong, this guy is well liked by his students ????